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Extended Families find fun at sea with a Carnival Cruise Lines sailing up the New England coast to Canada.

Everyone talks about how wonderful cruises are for families, but we recently put the concept to the test by defining "family" in its broadest sense. That is, we decided to take the plunge with our own three children, aged 8, 9 and 11; our brother- and sister-in-law, who were traveling without children, and our children's grandparents.

The latter, who are in their 80s, have enjoyed traveling in the past but slowed down in recent years as the mechanics of travel became more exhausting than fun for them.

And, like most families, we enjoy each other's company but don't want to spend every waking moment together. Nor do we want to subject all of the adults to our children's occasional rambunctious behavior.

Cruising Pros And Cons

While wondering what product could possibly accommodate such a range of ages and interests, we came across a Carnival Cruise Line sailing from Boston to Canada in May.

Since we live in Boston, the departure point was an attraction, both in terms of the money we would save on airfare and the minimized hassle. Secondly, the destination was tempting. We reasoned that Canada, unlike the steamy Caribbean, would likely appeal to the older generation in our group and would attract a quieter clientele not likely to keep them up at night with poolside parties.

On the other hand, would there be any children on board for ours to play with--- the trip did not coincide with a school break--- and what would our kids do in Halifax and St. John? Lastly, would our brother- and sister-in-law, who enjoy upscale travel, find the food and amenities satisfactory?

My misgivings were reinforced during the check-in process in Boston's Black Falcon terminal, during which I saw all of three children in the entire hall.

"Uh oh," we thought, as we moved through the line.

In fact, these and all of our reservations were unfounded once we got on board Carnival's new Victory, a surprisingly elegant ship with a distinct European décor and a minimum of glitz. We found that there were 83 children and nine infants on board out of 2,896 passengers, compared to the 600 to 700 who would sail in a typical summer season.

And the Camp Carnival children's club was up and running at full speed, unlike some lines whose youth programs require a minimum number to operate.

Action for All Ages

Activities, which were divided by age group, included unsupervised scavenger hunts throughout the ship, disco dancing, board games, art projects and pizza parties.

Also available was an indoor pool with a retractable roof, where the children swam every afternoon in relative warmth on an enclosed deck that also featured pizzas, grilled foods and a self-service ice cream bar for families who had a hard time waiting until dinner. (The ship's outdoor swimming pools, including a wading pool, are in use on Caribbean sailings.) At night, the children enjoyed spending time with their new friends at parties or games supervised by the children's club staff or spending a few dollars playing air hockey in the ship's arcade.

Adult-friendly, on-board activities include visiting the Nautica Spa, from which my sister-in-law emerged daily with a serene glow; jogging around the deck; reading in the ship's library; attending art auctions; playing bingo; shopping, or hitting the casino.

As to the shore excursions, there were several options appropriate for young families as well as more straightforward itineraries for adults intent on sightseeing.

During our stay in Halifax, for example, I took the children horseback riding on a ranch that also offered a small petting zoo, an outdoor cookout and kid-friendly jousting in well-padded gear in an inflatable arena. The outing was pricey at $76 per person, with no discounts for children, but it was a highlight of the trip for us. The excursion bus to and from the ranch met us at the transit area at the dock, so that I was able to easily take the children on my own while my husband stayed on board relaxing with his parents.

The same day, my brother- and sister-in-law booked an excursion that took them out to Peggy's Cove, one of the most scenic spots in the area, where they spent about 3 ½ hours seeing the sights via motorcoach and on foot for $39 per person.

In St. John we chose an excursion together: a one-hour, horse-drawn trolley tour of the city. The short duration of the tour, combined with the friendly patter of the costumed guides, made for an entertaining outing while still allowing us plenty of time to enjoy the ship's amenities. To keep the kids interested during the tour, the guide passed out tricornered hats, told funny stories and handed out samples of a local specialty, a kind of dried, edible seaweed. The trolley ride cost $21 per adult; $15 for kids aged 3 to 12.